Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Meet Eleanor Kathryn Scott!

Meet Eleanor Kathryn Scott, our little sweetheart. We are so in love with her already.



She was born last Saturday, June 22nd, at 11:20 PM. I started having contractions off and on starting at 6:30 AM but we weren't sure they were anything more than Braxton Hicks until about 5 PM. So during the afternoon we ran errands and I even made a trip to the Apple Store solo to replace the phone I had dropped the previous day. Definitely had a contraction while I was there and had to casually take a seat while chatting with one of the employees.

I was fortunate enough to have a helper as I waited through some contractions at home.


And after we figured out that yes indeed, this was the real deal, we dropped Bradley off with our amazingly nice friends Jayme and Tim who are mommy and daddy to Bradley's little friend Eli. Bradley barely even noticed us saying goodbye, he instantly started playing with toys and having a delightful time.

We arrived at the hospital at about 7:15 PM
Baby wants out!
And Eleanor officially joined us at 11:20 PM

Labor was pretty nice, I got an epidural after we had been there about an hour and had to push through four contractions and that was it! I even got to pull her out at the end. Sounds more hardcore than it is, she was mostly out already and the doctor told me that I could pull her out if I wanted to so I just leaned down and pulled her onto my chest. Hurray!  

She weighed in at 7 lbs 11 oz and was 21 inches long. And while we were so happy that she was a pink, healthy baby from the get go, this mommy was DELIGHTED for purely superficial reasons that her little girl was born with a full head of hair and even sweet little eyebrows.

This picture was taken about an hour after she was born

I can't believe how tiny she is. Especially since I gained about 10 lbs more this pregnancy than I did with Bradley. I was fully expecting a 9 lb baby. Nope!

It doesn't get much more fresh baby than this
And as you can see, Bradley really missed us for the two days we were gone. He had no fun at all first at his friend Eli's house and then back home with our friend Fatima for day two.
Poor sad child

 So while that was going on we were doing this with little Eleanor. Bonding and loving her up!

Nathan took Eleanor's first official video

And he is so so happy with another infant to snuggle with. Someone is definitely going to be a daddy's girl.

I was pretty excited to have an infant to snuggle with as well. I keep saying that I'm enjoying Bradley more and more as he gets older but man, there is just something about having a tiny infant in your arms that is just amazing.

One of the things we were immediately struck by when we first saw her was just how much she looked like infant Bradley. Their faces are pretty much identical. I found a picture of newborn Bradley for comparison. No question that they are related!

And yes, looking at this photo of infant Bradley made me a bit melancholy

Nathan went and got our sweet Bradley man so he could meet his little sister in the hospital. He was very interested in her until he spied her little snot sucker stuck in the clear hospital bassinet and decided it looked kind of like a ball and needed to play with it immediately. Not five minutes into being around his sister and already stealing her things.

But he was very sweet with Eleanor and all my worries about him hating her or hitting her seem to be not much of a concern at the moment. Until they're both toddlers. But surely MY darling children will get along perfectly! 

He was very worried about her during her first bath, which he got to watch. She did not enjoy it and Bradley was very concerned when he saw her cry. Such a sweet boy. 

We took him back to his friend's house after a fairly short visit. Thank goodness for meeting some wonderful people in the short time we've lived in Kansas City, I was originally very worried about what we would do with Bradley while we were in the hospital but everything worked out beautifully.

Speaking of beautiful ... I originally said I wasn't a big pink fan and preferred red for my little girl but I think it's apparent that I've changed my mind.


Yup. A bit of pink going on here. And a bow! We have a GIRL! I get to do these things! Hurray!!!

And it's fun to see how different Eleanor is from Bradley already. Nursing with her has been a breeze from the get go but she definitely does not have Bradley's voracious appetite. But she constantly wants to be sucking on something, anything, and has already discovered her fingers which never happened with Bradley. 
I love this picture because when I was a kid I didn't suck my thumb, I used two of my fingers instead. And here she is doing the same thing. I guess it's genetic!


We were really happy when we got to leave the hospital and it was amazing to see a tiny baby in this carseat once again. 

Yes, I'm leaving the hospital in the same dress in which I arrived. Fits a bit easier now!

Last time with Bradley we were able to get some amazing photos just from the photography service at the hospital but we had no such luck this time around. Luckily, I made a new friend at Bradley's swim class who is both nice AND great with a camera so we're going to just try to see what we can do on our own. Got some great shots already, we're going to try for more later this week!






So so grateful for people with photography hobbies. I'm also grateful for my smartphone, which I pretty much always have on me so I can seize the moment when Eleanor is being adorable. 
Excited face
Serious face

 Video of Eleanor being ADORABLE

Eleanor passed out across my stomach. Such a sweet, tired girl!

Bradley won't leave you alone if you have Eleanor. It's amazingly sweet and rather surprising. He didn't seem extraordinarily interested in her at the hospital but now that she's home he gives an excited cry if he sees a parent holding her and runs over. He typically does this:

 But he'll also do this.

And Nathan took this amazing video right before we got Bradley ready for bed tonight


If not for Eleanor, the following would have been my blog post for the week. Bradley has been a rock star at his little swim class and continues to amaze both me and Nathan with his complete disregard for personal safety and comfort in his efforts to move move move and explore explore explore!
Climbing out of the pool is actually the one aspect of his class in which he's rather average because he doesn't see why he would want to leave the amazing pool of fun.

A GIANT waterfall? Get me in there, Daddy!

There's also a fountain area. These are five dollar swim classes and they let you come early and stay late at the coolest kid pool around. We love how family friendly this place is.

He's also been getting his molars so he's been a bit fussy lately and has been getting his pacifier a lot more during the daytime. He also gets more cuddle television time that in theory is relaxing.
Starting position

Oh wait, if I could do this on Mommy somehow that would be ideal

Yes yes, this is how I prefer to watch my show

Or perhaps like this. Yep, that's my very pregnant belly in the bottom of the picture.

Bradley has also become quite the help around the house, here is he helping me vacuum.

Three days before Eleanor was born I took Bradley out for gelato on a hot day. One of the wonderful things about Bradley is that there are few questions regarding his wants and desires.

There was even accompanying sound effects as he grunted and yelled and generally worked hard to earn every bite of gelato he got.

Bradley had grown increasingly interested in my big belly over the last few weeks. He would laugh and poke at my belly button if I pulled up my shirt. I thought it was cute when he would try to pull up my shirt to get at my belly button but it got a little less cute when he tried to do it when I was wearing a dress. Didn't see the shirt thing turning into that, we stopped having our special belly bonding time soon after a few woohoo dress moments.
But it was pretty adorable while it lasted.

Bradley is on the path to independence at mealtimes. It's a messy path, but it's a path. Here he is feeding himself a smoothie.



The video is priceless. Nathan and I were cracking up.


And because I can't leave without one last picture of Eleanor ... here is one of her first smile caught on camera! We just melt whenever we look at her. It's hard to believe she's only been in our lives for a few days, we love her so much!


Sunday, June 16, 2013

Escapades of the Bradley Boy

I took Bradley to the park the other day and he found a new mommy that he decided to adopt as his own. Maybe it was because I decided to dress him in his wussie sailor outfit that morning but I thought I balanced that out by taking him out to donuts with my friend Fatima.

Bradley was given his first donut hole while we were in line. He was a fan to say the least, the girls behind the counter were cracking up watching him gleefully shove it into his mouth.

Bradley cramming in his second donut hole. Sailor outfit! So so cute!


He loved the donuts but apparently that wasn't enough for the kid. We got to the park and he made a beeline to the sandbox where he soon noticed a very nice mommy sitting by her little boy.

Shortly before discovering "new mommy"
He brought her about four or five toys that he found and she laughed and said thank you every time. Finally, he walked over and made it clear that he would like to sit on her lap. Her little boy seemed a bit unsure about the whole thing but shy little Bradley crawled onto new mommy's lap and snuggled happily for about five minutes. What a kid. I get the feeling that this kind of behavior is fairly uncommon for a child of this age, Bradley is certainly one of a kind.

And the thing is, I feel like I've been a pretty awesome mommy lately! We've been going out and doing a lot of fun things pretty much every day. Yes, this is in some part due to the imminent arrival of his little sister because I'm pretty sure outings will be a little tougher for a while, but it's also because I have a blast at these things too. We went to the farmers market the other day and this happened:



Yes, I let my child play in the fountain. Fully clothed. I had a spare outfit for him in the diaper bag, I always do, but I didn't bring a towel with me and really had no plan for what I was going to do with a sopping wet child. It was warm, he could air dry in a pinch ... great parenting. Luckily, one of the people who stopped to admire how cute he was chatted with me for a minute and found out I had nothing to dry him off with. So she gave me a canvas reusable grocery bag which is what Bradley was ultimately dried off with. He didn't really mind. He's such a hilarious kid.

I also recently played bullfighter with him with one of his sister's new blankets while Nathan took a video. 







And we've been swimming at Fatima's apartment complex pool quite a bit lately. He likes it when nice children are there that allow him to steal their toys.
 

We had to retire his 18 month swimsuit after it became apparent it was too small on him. Much to Nathan's delight it meant I sent him this picture of Bradley in the 2t superhero swimsuit that Nathan had picked out. I'm okay with superheros but I cannot wait until I get to get a My Little Pony bathing suit or something along those lines for baby girl.



I actually love that sweet Bradley is so friendly and outgoing, Nathan and I have been laughing about the "new mommy" story all week. It's very nice to have a child who loves you dearly and has plenty of affection left over for complete strangers.

And for bouncing on stairs ... this kid is a hoot.



Bradley had a fabulous weekend playing with Grandma Colleen and Kerry who came by for a visit.
I don't know who is having more fun in this picture


Once again, the only non blurry pictures we get of Bradley are when he finally sits still to read a book. Everyone is a sucker for reading books to this kid, it's just too cute when he picks one out and plops down on your lap.


We went to the farmers market again while they were here and Bradley got to revisit his fountain. Although this time he had company and liked to run out of the fountain and frolic around the much more crowded picnic area and then would run back to the fountain with a war cry that made little girls leap aside lest they be run over by the fountain warrior.

And later Nathan took Colleen and Kerry to Bradley's favorite park, where they got to witness him in action. There's always a lot of action.
Swings!

A mostly deserted sandbox. The BEST way to play in the sand with Bradley.
Many thanks to Colleen and Kerry for bringing us a good number of plants and even planting them for us! Both Nathan and I are a little afraid that we have black thumbs (I killed a cactus once. Not kidding.) but we hope that these great plants survive us and we get some great fresh vegetables to enjoy this summer! We promise to at least protect them from a stick wielding Bradley. That much we can most likely manage.


And in honor of Father's Day, here are some pictures of Bradley with his wonderful daddy. He is so crazy about Nathan and it's pretty apparent that the feeling is mutual. We're not really doing much today for Father's Day, which is kind of a gift to Nathan in and of itself. Typically I'd be dragging Nathan to a park or having him help work on weekend projects. Sometimes a nice, relaxing day is just the ticket!

Such good sharing!

This poor child. I need to bring a bunch of these photos into his kindergarten class when the teacher wants to know why he's always running around and has a hard time sitting still.

My boys watching a show together. My two favorite people in the whole world!